Anti-feminists: are you able to function in a healthy way while immersed in your obsession with feminism?

Does seeing everything as a gender issue taint your relationships and quality of life? Do you find yourself depressed, angry, or bitter much of the time? Do you have trouble moving on and putting the gender war out of your mind? What would it take to end the obsession? And the million dollar question: do you think it's healthy to be so obsessive about it?